Praise Plays, But Special Praise

 

Does your child displays any of these-

- Not complying with parental requests

- Having a bad attitude

- Speaking harshly

- Being careless, showing disrespect

- Arguing, Lying, Hitting others

- Not Sharing, Not Engaging in Self Care

- Fussy Eating

- Not going to Bed on Time

Are you looking for a change in your child’s behavior? If yes, then this is for you!

We all know praise works, but have you ever wondered why sometimes it doesn’t bring the change you expect? The secret lies in how you praise. That’s where special praise comes in!

 What is Praise?

Praise is simply positive feedback—it acknowledges and appreciates a child’s good behavior.

 What is Special Praise?

Special praise is also positive feedback, but with some added elements that make it far more effective. When used consistently, it has the power to reinforce positive behavior and bring about real, lasting change in your child’s actions.

 The Essential Components of Special Praise

Be Enthusiastic – Your child should feel the praise! Use an energetic tone, engaging facial expressions, and hand gestures. A dull, routine “good job” won’t have the same impact as an excited, “Wow! I like how you kept your toys back in place!”

Be Specific – Instead of a general “Well done,” make sure to state exactly what you are praising. For example, say, “I really appreciate how patiently you waited for your turn.” This helps your child understand what behavior to repeat.

Add a Non-Verbal Touch – Actions speak louder than words! A gentle pat on the back, a hug, ruffling their hair, or even a warm smile can make your words more meaningful.

WHEN ? Matters-

For praise to be truly effective, it should be immediate. If your child tidies up their room in the morning, praising them right then and there is more impactful than bringing it up at the dinner table hours later. Instant reinforcement strengthens the connection between the behavior and the reward.

So, if you want to encourage positive habits in your child, don’t just praise—praise with energy, and warmth!

Try it consistently to see the difference. Believe me, it works.

 

-Manisha

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