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One Fine day....

L ife isn’t just a one-time experience-it feels like a journey of the soul, repeating itself, striving to reach its true form. We take birth willingly, embrace death when the time comes, and move forward. This realization has brought me at a better point. Not because I’m running in a race, afraid of missing out, or trying to console myself for something I don’t have, but simply because it makes sense to me. One day, the world will continue as it always has, but I won’t be the same. Just like our grandparents, who once lived here but is no longer with us—yet life carries on. Perhaps they have been reborn somewhere, living a new journey, different from their past ones, might be in our own homes as kids and we don't know. If I were to die today and be reborn five years later, I would enter a new world, shaped by a different time and circumstances. I wouldn’t think, act, or speak the same way and so won't bother about todays situations but might be the current ones. My physic, my h...

Praise Plays, But Special Praise

  Does your child displays any of these- - Not complying with parental requests - Having a bad attitude - Speaking harshly - Being careless, showing disrespect - Arguing, Lying, Hitting others - Not Sharing, Not Engaging in Self Care - Fussy Eating - Not going to Bed on Time Are you looking for a change in your child’s behavior? If yes, then this is for you! We all know praise works, but have you ever wondered why sometimes it doesn’t bring the change you expect? The secret lies in how you praise. That’s where special praise comes in!   What is Praise? Praise is simply positive feedback—it acknowledges and appreciates a child’s good behavior.   What is Special Praise? Special praise is also positive feedback, but with some added elements that make it far more effective. When used consistently, it has the power to reinforce positive behavior and bring about real, lasting change in your child’s actions.   The Essential Components of Special Praise Be Enth...

Is it really all about the mindset?

  Yes, it is. We have two mind sets- rigid mind set and improvement mind set which can be termed as fixed & growth mindset. The rigid mind set is simply to have our own boundaries to think, accept, assess, judge and act upon anything within the limited thought process. Not open to accept the different ways.  A teacher asked children competing in a spell be competition after the result announcement, what they were thinking of.  The boy who achieved less marks and was declared runner up said, he had lost the competition. Is it really feasible for a child to conclude winning & losing at the age of learning? Do we have any idea how did these terms affect them in long term? Can we find a way in-between  wherein they learn? Are we really helping them out to live a better life? The life would be never ever a final result on any step but for sure will remain a journey and we all will be only & only learning throughout the journey.  Lets help ourselves and ou...